hOT  mESS HABITS 

by Victoria Harder

Empowering  type B / adhd women  to  who have tried to do it all.

Productivity for real life

Let's be real, some of the productivity advice on the internet is a little intense. I get that it isn't always an option to wake up at 5am, to do the same workout every day or to have a perfectly colour-coded planner that you forget to use after approximately 2 weeks.

That’s where Hot Mess Habits comes in. This podcast is all about realistic productivity for everyday girls who want to build habits and routines that actually fit their lives — no perfection required. Whether you’re balancing work, motherhood, creative projects, or just trying to keep it all together, you’ll find practical tips, honest conversations, and a whole lot of encouragement. Let’s ditch the overwhelm and create routines that work for you.

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Victoria Harder

Former overachiever who tried (and failed) to do it all—now confidently sharing my journey of balancing productivity and a life I actually love.


I have been a type b kind of girl my whole life. Upon getting diagnosed with ADHD in 2022 I started sharing on tiktok all the little things I do to keep my life together, which I called "hot mess productivity". I never expected to have so many people resonate!


I am a wedding photographer, toddler boy mom, and content creator figuring out the juggle of business, motherhood, and finding peace in the everyday moments. Thanks so much for being here!

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Why you don't have to do the same thing every single day.

Learn how to show up for yourself, build habits, and create routines without the pressure of “being consistent.”

Realistic Routines

Yes—your brain works a little differently.
So how do we lean into that, push against it when needed & find tools that actually work for us?

Mindset Shifts

From current obsessions to simple wellness practices and real-life moments, I share the things that are bringing joy, making life easier, or helping me stay inspired in the chaos.

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"So refreshing to hear relatable content and useful advice from a fellow ADHD canadian girly just trying to figure it all out"

- Lisa

"Victoria shares such relatable struggles that I resonate with every single week"

- Abby

"I am a very "all or nothing" kind of girly and it majorly affects my success, so I need to take a different approach. Love these tips!"

- Kayleigh

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